It's a fantasy world

It started off with Adam and Eve... two people,in love with each other,to such an extent that even when Eve gets in trouble by eating the forbidden fruit offered to her by the Satan, Adam does the same ,even though he knows they'll be punished for doing so,and guess why he does that? because he wants to be with Eve,together,forever and ever.
I wonder why Adam was so loyal(as it is we don't really find loyal guys or at times girls now-a-days ! ), maybe because he had no other option ! lol
But this is not the topic for this blog,its about the fantasy world that WE create ! (be it a guy a girl )

Each one of us has a dream , a wish , that we want it to come true someday,even if it is impossible !

Girls(for I'm a girl and know things better for them as for guys ) , almost , I think every girl , has this dream of a prince charming , of HER prince charming to come to her someday and take her away on his white horse , love her truly and unconditionally and we all know what comes up next in row.. " live happily ever after ! ". :-)
As for,
Guys,(I can only guess for them ! ) , grow up looking at their mothers as a perfect wife,a perfect mother,a perfect daughter-in-law and wish they also get someone just like her !

But , after being in relations , mending some, looking at some, I feel , all this actually could be fantasy ! or maybe the girl or the guy  who actually finds TRUE love might be lucky and gods choicest one !
but people, if we leave our hopes and just sit back thinking there's no one who can make this dream actually turn out to be true will be wrong ! ITS LIFE ! This hope, that someday I will get that guy/girl who'll love me truly,unconditionally , will be loyal !, shall never betray me and we'll live happy,together,forever,, makes life more fun and joyous !
So no matter who dumped you,betrayed you,forget,forgive and ignore and move on look out for the one for you ! 

trust ; love

Everyone says , and almost everyone must have heard it too ,that do not trust people easily !
Well, some believe it some don't and for me , well I'd rather not share this.( lol )

Anyway, here's something that I'm sure would be almost every girls story ! and it does belong to one too...

There was this girl , 16 , and had joined a coaching just like anyone does.She made friends there and enemies too, but , there was this guy , a secret admirer sort , who liked her but didn't know how to approach her in the correct manner. When he tried being friends with her, she ignored him thinking that he must be of the same 'guy' category who are born flirts, irritating etc. However with time both started liking each other and started dating soon ! Everyone in their coaching knew it ,even the teachers ! But these two were little kids, fallen for each other just because of some infatuation , and, who knew there was a trouble coming for these two kids. And the trouble were their parents..who were told about their infatuation,and well for the guy had a narrow escape but the girl..she was made to change her coaching center , far away from the guy ! And of course with time the distance between the two too increased steadily. they weren't in touch at all ! After about 2 years, the guy tried to find the girl, and they met ! And this time..something sparked between them...yes it was love ! They were so happy with each other.They hanged out together,had gossips and not only this, they had COMMITTED relation, they wanted to be together for their entire life ! Everything was simply perfect,just like a fairy-tale until one day, when the guy just broke contacts..he stopped messaging her,no calls, no good morning messages ,, not even wishing her goodnight ! and the girl first was extremely shocked and scared for she feared he would soon breakup.. but a close friend of her suggested her to stay calm and give him time,,give him space, and she did !
After a week,the guy did message,but he was still the same,rude,rough, at first the girl accepted for she thought at least he was talking to her but as the week went on she couldn't take this behavior of his, she kept asking and wondering what has made him change all of a sudden?! and every time the guy had the same answer-he didn't change,everything was fine ! and it was the girl yelling at him unnecessarily !
After that terrible week,the thing that she feared the most happened ! they broke up ! she was in pieces ! shattered ! for it was her first true love ! and she had so many dreams for them !
 think about it people, it just took that guy one single moment to throw away each memory of his with the girl,each word he said to her,every look that just said that I do love you and will be there always ! JUST ONE SINGLE MOMENT !
After reading this I swear, I wouldn't trust anyone blindly ! and for the girls -  you're not to be used and thrown away ! your heart isn't a toy to be played with ! take your decision wisely and with a lot of patience ! don't just throw your self head over heels in any relation,for every guy can't be the ONE for you and THE ONE for you will come to you , you wouldn't have to go to him ! 

Hope,Patience and Faith.

It's so confusing !
What would one feel like not being loved? it sounds scary ! at least for me it surely does..
All right..so here i go..

There were like, two best friends.. like real close ones. ! They were together in school for 3years, even after one of them left the school, they were still in touch .
Since, they lived nearby they could see each other,know about each other,and just like it happens in almost every friendship ,they had loads and loads of fights ! Fights over his girlfriends,,over his bad habits,over he didn't study(lol).and ,so,lot more ! It was crazy ,but they didn't break their relation !
They worked on like a team..she would help him out,defend him, and even find 'girlfriends' for him.(rofl)

After a few years,they weren't in contact,still living nearby. After another year,when their lives had moved on,they met,had chats , shared lots of stuff, and everything was just the same except the fact that a lot of time had gone by ! that's it !
Now, the guy, shared something , he said , the girl whom he dated 3years back,he still loves her and wants her back despite the fact that she's in a committed relationship ! This put the girl in a confusion but she had to do it for the sake of their friendship ! The guy(the best friend) goes abroad . It becomes really difficult for the best friend to even find out the number of the girl whom the guy loves and that's all because of the person that girl is dating for he wants every single person on Earth,who is or was,in ANY way, related to the best friend guy,to stay away from his beloved.
She(the girl best friend) tries to make her best friend to understand that there's no use of remembering the girl he loves for she's not his ! she belongs to someone else ! But the guy doesn't loose hope, he still hopes that the girl,whom he loves TRULY, will come back  ONE FINE DAY ! AND THAT DAY, he promises,THE TWO BEST FRIENDS AND THAT GIRL WILL ALL BE TOGETHER remembering all this !
It does nothing but encourage ME not to loose hopes for whatsoever thing in life !
Keep the hopes alive,have strength and patience and most importantly have faith in god and things will fall in place ! :)